Text Dirty to Me – Sexting Tips for Beginners

For beginners or those unfamiliar with sexting, the prospect of texting dirty can be daunting.  In some minds, it’s sleazy and distasteful. Other abstainers twitter with embarrassment at the thought of it. Until a couple of years ago I felt the same way. But when I resurfaced in the dating pool after fifteen years, myContinue reading “Text Dirty to Me – Sexting Tips for Beginners”

Take It Back #2: Reclaiming the Music You Love After a Breakup

Music Hurts After a Breakup Listening to music after a breakup can be heartbreaking. Music, places, physical objects and other things you love are intrinsically bound to the love you just lost. Our first instinct is to avoid these things or shut them out of our lives. We don’t want to deal with the pain.Continue reading “Take It Back #2: Reclaiming the Music You Love After a Breakup”

Take It Back #1: Reclaiming Your Desire to Have Sex After a Breakup

When you go through a breakup, having sex with someone new can be daunting. In addition to losing your significant other, you lose touch with your sexuality. This loss is one of many you may experience after a split. Heartbreak can tarnish things you once cherished. Memories, places, music, and objects become painful reminders ofContinue reading “Take It Back #1: Reclaiming Your Desire to Have Sex After a Breakup”

Alone in the Apocalypse: How I Survived Being Single During COVID

Once upon a time, before COVID, before I started writing about being single, I was married. During those years relished the idea of a doomsday scenario playing out in real life. I loved the idea of it being he and I against the world. I couldn’t imagine anything better than being holed up together whileContinue reading “Alone in the Apocalypse: How I Survived Being Single During COVID”

Ode to Tinder: How a Dating App Taught Me to Love Being Single

In 2018 I left a man I’d been with for almost fifteen years. He’d cheated on me under particularly nasty circumstances, and I’d had enough.  But I didn’t just leave. I strode away, into an uncertain future, with more strength and confidence than I knew I possessed. The conviction and grace with which I handled theContinue reading “Ode to Tinder: How a Dating App Taught Me to Love Being Single”

I’ll Have What He’s Having: A Five-Course Tutorial on How to Facilitate the Female Orgasm

Women Want Orgasms Too! Everyone knows that female orgasm is elusive, but that doesn’t mean that women don’t want or care about them. Unlike the penis, the clitoris keeps a low profile, and no one sex act guarantees it will be stimulated. That does not mean that a female orgasm is any less pleasurable thanContinue reading “I’ll Have What He’s Having: A Five-Course Tutorial on How to Facilitate the Female Orgasm”

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