Stella In Datingland
Unique advice on sex, dating and relationships
Recent Stories and
Advice on Sex, Dating & Relationships
After my divorce the thought of sleeping with someone new made me cringe. This is the story of how broke through that mental block and reclaimed my sexuality. In it, I also share thoughts to help others who’ve lost their desire after a breakup. People can come and go from our lives, but we don’tn have to let sex, sexuality, and physical pleasure go with them.
Emerging from a fourteen-year relationship into the strange new world of dating apps changed everything I knew about dating. This post outlines the unexpected ways in which Tinder eased my transition into single life. It’s a funny thing when something meant to facilitate coupling gives the confidence to go it alone. This post may forever alter the way you think about dating apps.
In the era of COVID and social distancing being single equates to being alone. This chronicles my journey through deep depression and loneliness and how I eventually regained my confidence and independence. I tell this story to bring others that are flying solo through the pandemic hope